ASKING TOO MUCH

by Cynthia
(Los Angeles CA)

I live with a room mate who has FOUR children two of whom live close by and do not communicate with me - even though I have requested their help.


Moms initials are FA so FA DEMANDS that I do or TELL her things like IF and WHEN her computer will work. I can't possibly know this. When I don't know she says, "WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU!?"

She recently went to "Honduras, Japan" and then asked me how to lock the front door...

I need help very badly and I don't know where to turn for help as I have approached the local SR Center and they tell me that they can only help if SHE calls them. Well SHE thinks she is PERFECT and everyone else is OFF!

Please respond!

Crying in CA

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