My parents are elderly and sick ! I have a full time job a family a rental business and a sick husband!

Neither my brother or sister will even come to the hospital just on a Rare occasion! I do all my parents shopping, bill paying, Doctors visits,and medicine !

My son in law even mows their yard!

This has been going on for years no matter what I say they ignore me cuss me out!
And blame me for causing family problems for asking for help!

They tell me go let my parents go hungry and without medication if I say I'm exhausted and need help!

I have had their numbers blocked from my phone and still receive evil calls from anonymous numbers from them! They say they can't worry about it they have their own life!

My sister has never had a job!

But they say they want their part of my parents inheritance !

Someone please tell me why they are so mean to me and my parents? We have never been anything but good to them both!

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It Is So Unfair
by: Anonymous

I know exactly how you feel. It is so unfair and it seems to be the same way in most families.

I have talked to others about it and they say it boils down to the siblings are just self centered. They are not willing to sacrifice a thing while they watch the only sibling willing to do the right thing burn out while they could pitch in and do their part.

All of the siblings have a responsibility in the care of ill or elderly parents in need of help. Our Creator is watching them. He sees what you are doing and what they are doing. One day they will have to give an account.

I pray that you are able to find help outside of your family. I also pray for your siblings hearts to be pricked. I hope they are able to put themselves into your shoes and maybe they will see how they would need your help.

If things were turned around, they would surely be singing a different song. Boy would they be begging for your help.

I applaud you for your compassion and your sacrifices. Praying for you to have much needed help come your way soon. God bless you and yours.

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